How to Deal with a Broken Heart

Having just come out of a relationship, I know what it feels like. It feels like this special person took a piece of you, and threw it away (cheesy I know :/) But I have a couple of tips that will hopefully help. Here goes:

DON’T listen to sad songs that have anything to do with break ups or love, it’ll only make you feel worse.

DO tell your closest friends about it. They will know how to cheer you up and make you laugh. They will know how important he/she was to you, and know to not bring him up. Everything you feel, tell them, because venting does help.

DON’T tell others how you feel at school. Most likely they won’t realise that it’s not to be told, and will spread it around the school like wildfire, meaning he/she will know how much the break up has affected you.

DO say that you can be friends, if they ask. If not, it will just mean that they start to get feelings for you, but not good ones. Or if being friends doesn’t work for you, be clear that you aren’t friends, but you are mutual.

 

There are other things you can do to make it less difficult, but this should be the start of an easier road out of the dumps. If your needing anymore tips, ask friends. Anything they can say will help you (hopefully!) and it will be better.

Oh and  Relationships come and go, but friends stay, so never leave your friends for a boy/girl.

Sisters

Sisters are your best friends that are there for life. They argue, talk, and advise, and you should cherish every moment you have with them. You never know if it may be your last, or if it’s only the start of a new-found inside joke. But live every moment, laugh every day, and love every hour that brings you happiness.

Meant to Be

“If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, it’s yours forever. If it doesn’t, then it was never meant to be” -Unknown

That’s a famous quote that nearly everyone knows, yes? But think about it.

The quote says that if it doesn’t come back it was never meant to be. But that is a lie. It was meant to be, just for that short moment in time. It was meant to be, every minute the two people were together. It was meant to be, every day the two people loved each other. It was meant to be.

An Introuduction

When I was younger all I wanted to be was a teenager. I thought it would amazing: going out by myself, having great friends, being trusted, acting grown up, boys. But now, at 14, I realise it’s not that great. Sure there are the perks, but there are also the downfalls: having to act grown up, fashion disasters, acne, society, boys. However, even with the difficulties of teenage life, if you have the right people around, and the right advice, you’ll get through it just a tad easier. Maybe these years will be the best years of your life, as adults so often tell us. Maybe, just maybe, you will come out the other side of this period and think “Wow, I made it. I had the best time, and now I can really get on with my life”. Maybe, if you have the help.

So hi. I’m Polly Cude, I’m 14 years old, and I struggle just as much as anyone else probably does. And I’m here to guide you through these hard years in this tough world, and to share with you experiences that I’ll never forget. I’m here to help you.